I received these in an mail from one of our vendors here at work. I thought they were too good not to share.
The Storms You Don’t See
from Reflections by Mark Vittert in St Louis Biz Journal
• The older I get, the less I listen to what people say and the more I watch what they do.
• Be silent sometimes. You will learn a lot.
• The first to apologize is the bravest. The first to forgive is the strongest. The first to forget is the happiest.
• It takes red meat and pork about 48 to 52 minutes to go through your system. It takes a banana 90 minutes to go through. Eat fruits and vegetables.
• Humble yourself. Nobody likes arrogant people. Even arrogant people don’t like arrogant people. Quit thinking you’re better than others, you’re not.
• Never be ashamed or scared of doing the right thing. It’s the storms you don’t see coming that change you.
• If you can’t stand to see others happy, you need help. Being happy upon the happiness or success of others is a sign of purity of the heart.
• Kindness is free to give and priceless when received.
• Some of us could improve our whole lives if we just put down our phones for a few hours. Spend some time each day away from your cell phone.
• Don’t try to rush things that need time to grow.
• Life is not about how hard you can hit, but how much you can get hit and still keep moving forward.
• You can’t let praise or criticism get to you. It’s a weakness to get caught up in either one.
• Character is how you treat those who can do nothing for you.
• The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply.
• The saddest thing in the world is that we take advantage of how much someone loves us and don’t recognize the moment may never, ever come again.
• The confident leader asks questions, always wanting to learn from others. The weak leader does all the talking to prove how much they know.
• Ask yourself once a day: “What are you so afraid of?”
• The longer we dwell on our misfortunes the greater is their power to harm us.
• Everybody wants to save the earth; nobody wants to help mom do the dishes.
• If you want to free someone forgive. If you want to free yourself forget.
• Anger is a bad adviser.
• Every situation does not need your comment.
“Some of us could improve our whole lives if we just put down our phones for a few hours. Spend some time each day away from your cell phone.”
I’m not too bad for being on my phone, but I could apply this to the time I spend looking at a computer screen on a weekly basis. I know I need to reduce the time.
I do miss hanging out with friends and family and going for dinner when everyone wasn’t constantly checking their phones.
Great list, thanks.
There’s a game people are playing now where everyone puts their cell phones on the table during dinner. The first person who checks their phone has to buy dinner for everyone. I’ve had to say something to a few people who were on the phone so much I just couldn’t stand it anymore. If I’m having dinner with someone, I expect their attention to be on me (and mine on them, of course), not fifty people they are talking to online. That’s a pet peeve with me.
That’s a good
idea. I’m going to try that out this weekend. Thanks.